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Sparking Joy, Finding Transcendence

Last Saturday twenty-two people from ages 0-80+ and everywhere inbetween gathered in the hall to share food, silly questions, and skills with yarn, wool, and fabric.  At my table the “would you rather” questions were the hit of the evening, bringing all ages into the conversation. We will gather again on December 20th for our second annual blanket fort and restorative rest dinner. If you weren’t able to make it last weekend, I hope you’ll mark your calendars!

As 2025 nears its end I’m not sure where to put my hope for the new year ahead, but one thing I keep coming back to is real face to face connection and fun with people in my life. Sunday mornings and community events are my favourite part of this job, largely because I get to be with people in three dimensional real time. To talk with you, explore with your kids, and have some fun. It’s definitely where inspiration lives. 

Where do you feel moments of transcendance, or being vividly alive? Is it putting your body in the woods or near water? Talking or laughing with friends? Meeting new people with shared values? Singing? In deep silence?

If the answer is clear to you, how can you find space for more of that this holiday season? And if you’re not sure, perhaps you can find some space to let something arise. 

Whatever this month brings to you, I look forward to hearing about it next time I see you.

With care,
Kiersten

May you be well, may we find peace

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Our Whole Lives (OWL) Begins in one week!

Do you need more information before signing your young teen up for OWL? Come to Tuesday’s parent orientation, 6:30-8:30 pm Sept 30th and learn what it is all about. Or come talk to Christopher Wulff, our OWL coordinator, and me in Biddle (next to the meditation room) this Sunday after the service. Let Kiersten know if you’re coming

OWL sexuality education for grades 7-9 (ages 12-14) will run for 25 Sundays, October 5 to May 31 (11am-12:30pm), excluding holiday weekends. There is a required parent oriention Tuesday, Sept 30th, 6:30-8:30 pm. Complete this form to register your child. And then invite a friend!

Wondering if this class would work for your child?

The workshops are written to include ages 11-14, grades 7-9, our current demographics are weighted to the younger end. If your child is 14 going into grade nine and does not mind learning with 12 and 13-yr-olds then this class is also for them! More info and link to the program outline at: vanu.ca/services/owl-teenagers/

If you have any questions, please email Kiersten or use the contact form below to discuss if this class would be appropriate.

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Breaking Bread – Family Centred Community Dinners

The Lifespan Programs Team is excited to promote a monthly series of family centred events for building community, friendships, skills, and fun. Monthly themes revolve around connections, skill sharing, holidays, rest, and silliness.

September 27th, 5:00-8:00 pm (RSVP), is our first dinner – we are forming new Covenant Groups for the year, and connecting with folks who have been meeting together for years to share tips on making a lasting small group. Many years past have seen families connect in groups of 2-4, meeting once a month for a meal or playtime. People have formed groups around shared identity or shared interest in a subject or with the simple goal of exploring and deepening spirituality. What will this year bring?

Who should plan to come next Saturday?

  • Members of current covenant groups willing to share their experience and wisdom
  • Families of all varieties and ages – however you define family
  • Leaders or members of current covenant groups/identity groups that are open to new members
  • Anyone who would like to join or form a small group this year
  • People who have taken the small group facilitator training and could co-lead a new group

What should I bring?

Please bring a side dish, dessert, or bread if you’re able. We will have a couple large pots of soup for our tummies and souls.

Future Dinner Dates and Themes

  • Oct 24, (Friday) Halloween (5:30-8:30 pm)
  • Nov 22, Skill Share and Dinner (sharing skills of crafting, cooking, mending, creating)
  • Dec 20, Solstice and Blanket Forts
  • Jan 17, Skill Share, Dinner and Coffeehouse
  • Feb 14, Lunar New Year Celebration
  • Mar 14, Pi Day Pies
  • April 4, Passover Seder
  • April 26, (Sunday) Everybody’s Birthday
  • May 30, All Ages Coffeehouse and Dinner

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Outreach Opportunities Fund supports Alzheimer Society of BC

From July 2025 to October 2025, our Outreach Opportunities Fund recipient will be the Alzheimer Society of British Columbia (ASBC). Please watch this video made for Vancouver Unitarians by the Alzheimer Society of BC.

Alzheimer Society of BC’s vision is “a world without Alzheimer’s disease and other dementias, and that world begins with a society where people affected by dementia are welcomed, supported and included.”

ASBC works with people with lived experience in order to mobilize a broad community of care and support research into the disease to ensure people affected by dementia are not alone.  For more information, please visit their website: https://alzheimer.ca/bc/en

Click here for more information about the Vancouver Unitarians Outreach Opportunities Fund – vanu.ca/oof

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New Caregivers Support Group Forming

We are forming a new support group for Caregivers of people with Dementia. The group is focused on sharing and peer support and open to Caregivers at any stage in the journey who are connected with Vancouver Unitarians. It will meet online once a month, the exact day TBD but likely a Wednesday afternoon or Thursday morning. Occasional in-person meetings may be decided upon by the group.

If you are interested in joining the group or have questions, please call or email Rev. Shawn or Kiersten Moore.

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Exploration Sundays – What are they? FAQs

Rev. Shawn and Kiersten Moore have been having conversations over the past two years about rebuilding the core of multigenerational community and spiritual life at VanU post-pandemic. We plan to experiment next fall with a shorter, intentionally all ages worship on the First Sunday of each month (September through June) followed by food and programming afterwards for adults, children, and youth to go deeper together in a variety of ways.

Core registered programs for children and youth will continue the rest of the month; including youth group, Crossing Paths, Our Whole Lives (O.W.L.), and Coming of Age.  Worship on the second through fifth Sundays will proceed as usual and children will be supported and engaged by Lifespan staff and volunteers in Hewett Centre and the Sanctuary. (read the introductory post here)

Experimenting with Worship and Community

Q: How will a Whole Congregation, all ages, religious exploration Sunday once a month promote intergenerational community if it is aimed at families?

A: While these 1st Sunday experiments will be an all ages service, that does not mean families only, I really mean all ages–intergenerational. It won’t be everyone’s cup of tea, particularly those who primarily come for a full length sermon above all other aspects of worship. But it is not only children who like ritual, participation, creativity, more music, no business, and a shorter length in worship.  

Also, the programs after worship will be aimed at different age groups, including elders and adults without young kids. Workshops will be designed, but not restricted, by age–so a young person fascinated by history can absolutely come engage with a UU history class, and an elder person who prefers art, nature, music, or movement can skip the discussion group for one of the creative spaces.

Exploration Sundays: Engaging Hearts, Heads, and Hands

Q: What are these First Sundays of the month going to look like in the fall?

A: The First Sunday all ages services will be shorter in length and involve focused homilies and reflections, ritual, participation, creativity, more music, and no business. Afterwards we will have food – a vital component if folks are going to stay – and then 60-90 minutes of program and activities in at least three spaces. Programming time will include hearts, heads, and hands options: moving, thinking, or creating. All will be built around meaning making, deepening connections, and filling our spirits.

Moving, Thinking, Making …

Q: Who will lead these awesome workshops and programs on Exploration Sundays?

A: Rev. Shawn and Kiersten envision working with other program staff, like Casey Stainsby and Alex Okrainetz; our intern minister Janet Pivnik; the new Lifespan RE Team chaired by Ariel Hunt-Brondwin; other RE volunteers; youth and their advisors. We would also like to collaborate with members and Teams wanting to facilitate an exploration of any question that touches the spirit. What is the spiritual in-road to questions of climate, environmental and social justice, or reconciliation?  What spiritual practices do people have to share?  There is a wealth of deep wisdom, joy, and playfulness we have to draw on for facing the challenges and concerns in this life we share. 

Effect on Other Groups

Q: What about space for other meetings and forums on Exploration Sundays?

A: The whole campus will be reserved for the early-afternoon (12-2:15) on these first Sundays and we ask that teams and committees find other times to meet in the course of the month.

Q: Does this mean no other forums or offerings by teams or groups on the first Sundays of each month?

A: We imagine that forum content could fit with a month’s theme and be a part of the programming provided. Shawn and Kiersten expect to be in conversation with various groups who may wish to offer programming on themes relevant to their areas of work or interest. 

So much of our spirituality as Unitarians is connected to our values of learning, growth, and justice.  There is opportunity for creative space, movement such as dance or games or spiritual practice, as well as discussion or content learning workshops and forums.

Q: Why is the whole campus reserved for Exploration Sunday afternoons?

A: Our goal is for the first Sunday of each month to be an animating time for the whole congregation. The morning service launches the month’s worship and small-group theme with different ways to explore that theme in programming following coffee hour. The intent is to engage everyone in the community-building this approach offers and make it easier for other groups to schedule events without competing programs. 

Do you have an idea? Let Rev. Shawn or Kiersten know about it.

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Experimenting with Worship and Community

Rev. Shawn and Kiersten Moore have been having conversations over the past two years about rebuilding the core of multigenerational community and spiritual life at VanU post-pandemic. Once a person of any age connects with the message, principles, and values of Unitarian Universalism, what compels them to put down roots and call a congregation a home? Some key elements are:

  • community
  • friendships
  • deep connections
  • a sense of belonging

With modern demands on family life it is hard to find families together here on any given Sunday. Often parents, children, and younger adults are missing each other and missing out on building peer friendships. Peer friendships contribute to belonging and also are fertile ground for deep intergenerational friendships.

We plan to experiment next fall with a shorter, intentionally all ages worship on the First Sunday of each month (October through May) followed by food and programming afterwards for adults, children, and youth to go deeper together in a variety of ways. We will continue to talk about the details of what this will look like before we move into summer, but the broad goals of this experiment are to:

  • Make it easy for families to attend one Sunday a month together
  • Feed bodies, hearts, and spirits 
  • Provide deep exploration and learning opportunities for adults, children, and youth to engage with Unitarian Universalism
  • Foster intergenerational connections
  • Fill up with joy and fun!

Core registered programs for children and youth will continue the rest of the month; including youth group, Crossing Paths, Our Whole Lives (O.W.L.), and Coming of Age.  Worship on the second through fifth Sundays will proceed as usual and children will be supported and engaged by Lifespan staff and volunteers in Hewett Centre and the Sanctuary.

Any questions about this experiment can be directed to either Rev. Shawn, shawn[at]vanu.ca, or Kiersten, kiersten[at]vanu.ca.

Thank you for being on this journey!

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Paganism 101 spring class series

Our beloved offering of Paganism 101 returns this February with co-facilitators Louise Bunn and Milo Pilas. This 9-session experiential curriculum was originally developed by Louise in the early 2000’s as an introduction to modern Pagan rituals, practices, beliefs, and history connected to Unitarian rationality. She has since updated the program to include a broad relationship between diverse gender identities and the divine.

Are you drawn to earth centred spirituality and curious about Western Esoteric traditions, beliefs, and history? Do you want to be able to create and conduct your own Pagan rituals for yourself or for family and friends? Do you wonder how science and rationality can entertwine with the magic of divine mystery? This rich hands on program will help you do all of that. It is also an active and powerful way to engage with Unitarianism’s Sixth Source: Spiritual Teachings of Earth-centred traditions that celebrate the sacred circle of life and instruct us to live in harmony with the rhythms of nature.

The next class series runs February 15 – April 19, 2025 on Saturdays 1 – 4 pm. This course is open to anyone age 13 and up, families are welcome to participate together. All classes are in-person as there are many materials and rituals to engage with. Read more about it on our website under “Spiritual Growth: Adult Programs

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Small Groups Open for Fall Sign-up

Are you desiring close knit community? Would you like to be part of a group of people you can dive deep with, share your joys and struggles with, and explore questions big and small? Many long-time Unitarians find that their small group circle is a vital part of what sustains them and connects them to this community. Now is the time to find your place in small group ministry!

There are three Covenant Groups seeking new members for this year, two of mixed ages and genders and one that has been focused on adults in mid-life. We also have open groups meeting monthly or bi-monthly around shared identity: Women’s group, two Elders Circles, LGBTQ+, and a Global Ethnic Majority group (GEM, formerly the IBPOC Covenant group). Click here for details on all of our current open groups.

Small Group Ministry – also called Covenant Groups or Affinity Groups – is an invitation to dive deep together. Small Groups build strong relationships, engage with meaningful issues, develop confident leaders, and inspire action. Groups are lay-led with the key focuses of intimacy, or building community and deepening relationships, and ultimacy, the opportunity for deeper spiritual exploration and search for meaning. The members in a group make an intentional commitment, or covenant, to one another, thus the name “Covenant Group”. See our Small Groups page for more details.

If you do not see an active group that fits your availability and interest, you can sign-up to be connected with a new group of people. Small Group Ministry is facilitated by members and any group of 6-10 people can form a new Small Group for the year.

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Registration Open for Sr. High OWL

Registration is open and ongoing for this year’s offering of Our Whole Lives sexuality education for youth entering grades 11 or 12 this fall (roughly ages 15-17). We have a wonderful dedicated team of facilitators looking forward to delving into all aspects of sexuality, relationships, and personal empowerment with youth. 

This will be our first run with the updated OWL material for this age group and we are excited! What is special about Our Whole Lives goes beyond the information it provides, much of that is available online and in high school sex ed curriculum. OWL brings youth together outside of school and the social pressures inherent to it; they have a chance to delve into these topics with real conversation. OWL allows youth to examine information, identify their own values, be their authentic self, and provides time to reflect together about what is important to them.

Read more about Our Whole Lives under the Spiritual Growth tab

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Lifespan Corner-September

Summer has its own rhythm on the Vancouver Unitarians campus. It’s beautiful and sunny and time feels slower and less hectic than other times of the year–most noticeable by many fewer emails! Many of us on staff have taken vacation time with family and friends, time camping or travelling, or simply not being in the office. I am most grateful for the wonderful team of seven volunteers who looked after children on Sundays this summer with our Can-do creative activities. I was able to take Sundays off work and the children who attended have had fun making forts, fairy houses, toothpick creations, and launching paper airplanes from the Sanctuary balcony (my personal favourite). 

The land of Integria was back on campus after a year’s hiatus for our fantastic Magical Mayhem Camp.  We had fourteen children from across metro-Vancouver and the Sunshine Coast, ranging in age from 7-12. We explored classism and how greed, self-importance, and only looking out for oneself ties in to unequal access to the things we need in life.  We used the language of casting magic to explore how we can use our voice and actions to bring about change and advocate for a just society. A little dragon named Gort caused mischief through the week stealing things for their horde but all was made right when the kids taught him about making friends and working together to help each other.  It truly was a magical week and we are all looking forward to next summer already. 

Alex Okrainetz is joining Vancouver Unitarian staff as our new Youth Coordinator and Casey Stainsby is filling the new role of Middle Years Coordinator to lead our Crossing Paths group and support our 10-12 year olds. We were sad to say goodbye to Olivia at the end of July, but I am confident that we are building a solid team of staff and volunteers working together for our children, youth, and families. When you see Casey and Alex on campus be sure to give them a warm thank you and welcome!

As we move into the fall our Sunday classes are resuming, including Crossing Paths (learning about neighbouring religions in Vancouver), a new Coming of Age cohort, and Our Whole Lives sexuality education for Sr. High (grades 11 and 12). It is a wonderful time to get involved with children and youth programs and there are many ways you can support this vital ministry.  If you think you could be one of the Stars of RE (big, bright, or small) go ahead and let me know with the link below.

Returning families do need to register for the new program year, this helps us stay up to date with your child’s needs, allergies, photo permissions, and contact information. Registration also helps us plan age appropriate and specific programs.  

More information about programs, orientations, dinners, circle worship, and more will be on the website and in the regular eWeekly and Family Newsletters. Let the office know if you don’t receive the weekly or family news and would like to.

Here is looking forward to a strong and nourishing year together!

–Kiersten Moore

Lifespan Faith Development Director

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Register Early! Magical Mayhem Summer Camp July 15-19

Register for a week of Magical Mayhem where the land of Integria emerges from the Bermuda Triangle for its annual Council meeting and Faire! 

Immerse yourself in the world of Integria with nature magic, storytelling, character building, role play and theatrical production. Whether you are a behind the scenes builder, a creative explorer, or a budding actor–this is a place to be genuine, be yourself, accept eccentricities and flourish! More information on our website: vanu.ca/summer-camp

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